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How To Help a Friend

It takes tremendous courage for a survivor to disclose violence to a friend or to seek help.

How you react to a friend’s disclosure of violence can save their life because it affects their likelihood of seeking out further supports. It is critical to not take her power away; trying to make decisions on her behalf may make her situation even more dangerous.

Believe them. Validate and empathize with their feelings.
Even if you haven’t seen it. Even if you know or care about the person harming your friend.

You can call a shelter for resources on behalf of someone else.

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